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	<title>Comments on: Tall or Short. Doesn&#8217;t Matter.</title>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/06/02/tall-or-short-doesnt-matter/comment-page-1/#comment-81064</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 13:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recently went on a date with a girl who revealed that she couldn&#039;t remember the last book she read for fun.

Total deal-breaker.

Or am I just being too fussy?

But, seriously, there&#039;s only one rule these days. If I have doubts, then give it a few chances, but if I&#039;m not sure, then DON&#039;T GO THERE. If the very thought of them doesn&#039;t make me go all warm and happy and gooey on the inside, then there&#039;s probably somebody else out there who WILL, and worth holding out for. Don&#039;t settle for something that doesn&#039;t work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently went on a date with a girl who revealed that she couldn&#8217;t remember the last book she read for fun.</p>
<p>Total deal-breaker.</p>
<p>Or am I just being too fussy?</p>
<p>But, seriously, there&#8217;s only one rule these days. If I have doubts, then give it a few chances, but if I&#8217;m not sure, then DON&#8217;T GO THERE. If the very thought of them doesn&#8217;t make me go all warm and happy and gooey on the inside, then there&#8217;s probably somebody else out there who WILL, and worth holding out for. Don&#8217;t settle for something that doesn&#8217;t work.</p>
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		<title>By: PixelFish</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/06/02/tall-or-short-doesnt-matter/comment-page-1/#comment-81027</link>
		<dc:creator>PixelFish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 07:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the biggest dating restriction I&#039;ve had is because they aren&#039;t the person that I&#039;m crushing on. Which is pretty much the whole damn universe except the person I&#039;m crushing on.

I do also have a restriction about refusing to date guys who were raised in the same religion I was. Because they tend to be raised with a certain set of expectations re: wife and not working and even when perfectly nice in other ways, they tend to have a bunch of sexist assumptions about the way a relationship should work. But it would be easy for a guy to slip under that bar--just talk and act like women can be partners, not your little helpmeet and free assistant.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the biggest dating restriction I&#8217;ve had is because they aren&#8217;t the person that I&#8217;m crushing on. Which is pretty much the whole damn universe except the person I&#8217;m crushing on.</p>
<p>I do also have a restriction about refusing to date guys who were raised in the same religion I was. Because they tend to be raised with a certain set of expectations re: wife and not working and even when perfectly nice in other ways, they tend to have a bunch of sexist assumptions about the way a relationship should work. But it would be easy for a guy to slip under that bar&#8211;just talk and act like women can be partners, not your little helpmeet and free assistant.</p>
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		<title>By: Patrick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Patrick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 17:44:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, but cabs have seatbelts?  Are they just there for show?  I don&#039;t recall seeing them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, but cabs have seatbelts?  Are they just there for show?  I don&#8217;t recall seeing them.</p>
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		<title>By: Joey-la</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joey-la</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2009 08:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t (and certainly hope) I have never done anything like that personally. My friends are tall, short, skinny and not so skinny (I will NEVER say they are fat becuase they ARE NOT!). I also know how it feels to be make fun of becuase of height, as I am really short. 
I know there are people around my school who tease one of my best friends, and whenever I hear people talking about her I say &quot;I&#039;m not saying you have to like her, but please don&#039;t say mean things about her&quot;. So I&#039;m completely with you Justine, looks, nationallity or any of those things are not important!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t (and certainly hope) I have never done anything like that personally. My friends are tall, short, skinny and not so skinny (I will NEVER say they are fat becuase they ARE NOT!). I also know how it feels to be make fun of becuase of height, as I am really short.<br />
I know there are people around my school who tease one of my best friends, and whenever I hear people talking about her I say &#8220;I&#8217;m not saying you have to like her, but please don&#8217;t say mean things about her&#8221;. So I&#8217;m completely with you Justine, looks, nationallity or any of those things are not important!</p>
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