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		<title>By: Janet Lane</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77649</link>
		<dc:creator>Janet Lane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 16:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Ever been out with someone who wasn’t really into you? &quot;
...loved this line! Yes, I want my future agent to *love* my writing and be excited about it. Thanks for the morning smile, Justine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Ever been out with someone who wasn’t really into you? &#8221;<br />
&#8230;loved this line! Yes, I want my future agent to *love* my writing and be excited about it. Thanks for the morning smile, Justine.</p>
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		<title>By: Stef</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77646</link>
		<dc:creator>Stef</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 15:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article. I have not searched for an agent for my first novel. I&#039;ve thought about it, but it seems like such a daunting process. Could fear of rejection be holding me back? Hmmmm. Anyway, I found your article enlightening and encouraging. Thanks. Now where do I find an agent?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article. I have not searched for an agent for my first novel. I&#8217;ve thought about it, but it seems like such a daunting process. Could fear of rejection be holding me back? Hmmmm. Anyway, I found your article enlightening and encouraging. Thanks. Now where do I find an agent?</p>
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		<title>By: Monica</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77644</link>
		<dc:creator>Monica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 14:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t agree with this article more.

I don&#039;t have an agent yet, but I have a body of work published in the gaming industry and I&#039;m trying to move forward.

In my opinion, many writers &quot;forget&quot; that the publishing world is -- first and foremost -- a business. 

Perhaps my view on agents is limited because I don&#039;t have one yet, but I view an agent much like I would a business partner.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree with this article more.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have an agent yet, but I have a body of work published in the gaming industry and I&#8217;m trying to move forward.</p>
<p>In my opinion, many writers &#8220;forget&#8221; that the publishing world is &#8212; first and foremost &#8212; a business. </p>
<p>Perhaps my view on agents is limited because I don&#8217;t have one yet, but I view an agent much like I would a business partner.</p>
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		<title>By: Maureen Johnson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maureen Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 01:23:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So much goodness and correctness.</description>
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		<title>By: thelittlefluffycat</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77625</link>
		<dc:creator>thelittlefluffycat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 23:02:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We talk about writers thinking of their manuscripts as their children -- who would want to marry their child off to someone who didn&#039;t think they hung the moon? Who wasn&#039;t willing to move with them across country if need be, work to support them in whatever way they needed support, believe absolutely in them?  You want your child to be loved and appreciated and FOUGHT for, not settled for as the lesser of offered evils.  We don&#039;t get to make that choice for our kids, we ought to be glad we get to make it for our books.

Thanks, Justine! Great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We talk about writers thinking of their manuscripts as their children &#8212; who would want to marry their child off to someone who didn&#8217;t think they hung the moon? Who wasn&#8217;t willing to move with them across country if need be, work to support them in whatever way they needed support, believe absolutely in them?  You want your child to be loved and appreciated and FOUGHT for, not settled for as the lesser of offered evils.  We don&#8217;t get to make that choice for our kids, we ought to be glad we get to make it for our books.</p>
<p>Thanks, Justine! Great post!</p>
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		<title>By: Shawna</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:56:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Been there; not fun. 

When I first started out, a good friend of mine introduced me to his agent. She offered to read my MS, said it was good and offered to represent it. Sounds good, right? Well, she didn&#039;t represent my genre, had no real interest in it and just wasn&#039;t enthusiastic about my work but I thought any agent is better than none, right? Wrong.

I&#039;m not saying the MS would have sold in another agent&#039;s hands but I am saying that the thought of something I put my heart and soul into in the hands of someone who really didn&#039;t care about it was a feeling I wouldn&#039;t like to repeat.

It hurts, it&#039;s frustrating--who likes rejection?-- but they really are doing you a favor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Been there; not fun. </p>
<p>When I first started out, a good friend of mine introduced me to his agent. She offered to read my MS, said it was good and offered to represent it. Sounds good, right? Well, she didn&#8217;t represent my genre, had no real interest in it and just wasn&#8217;t enthusiastic about my work but I thought any agent is better than none, right? Wrong.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying the MS would have sold in another agent&#8217;s hands but I am saying that the thought of something I put my heart and soul into in the hands of someone who really didn&#8217;t care about it was a feeling I wouldn&#8217;t like to repeat.</p>
<p>It hurts, it&#8217;s frustrating&#8211;who likes rejection?&#8211; but they really are doing you a favor.</p>
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		<title>By: Digest for 04/07/09 &#124; doyce testerman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Digest for 04/07/09 &#124; doyce testerman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 14:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Agents and RejectionJustine speaks great Wisdom: &#8220;An agent who passes cause they’re not sufficiently in love with your writing is DOING YOU A FAVOUR.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Agents and RejectionJustine speaks great Wisdom: &#8220;An agent who passes cause they’re not sufficiently in love with your writing is DOING YOU A FAVOUR.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, everyone!

Katie: You know I didn&#039;t come close to listing everything an agent does. One important area I didn&#039;t mention is all the long-term planning they do with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, everyone!</p>
<p>Katie: You know I didn&#8217;t come close to listing everything an agent does. One important area I didn&#8217;t mention is all the long-term planning they do with you.</p>
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		<title>By: katie</title>
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		<dc:creator>katie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 07:41:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeez, and I thought actors were bad!  Ignorance-based entitlement is a scary thing.  But I learned from this that agents do even more than I knew they did, so it&#039;s amazing any of them have time to even read new submissions, much less take the time to comment.  I take some of the rejection I&#039;ve gotten even more kindly now, since so far, all of it has come with comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeez, and I thought actors were bad!  Ignorance-based entitlement is a scary thing.  But I learned from this that agents do even more than I knew they did, so it&#8217;s amazing any of them have time to even read new submissions, much less take the time to comment.  I take some of the rejection I&#8217;ve gotten even more kindly now, since so far, all of it has come with comment.</p>
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		<title>By: Harry Connolly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Harry Connolly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent.

I think a big part of the disconnect is that so many people are used to being customers and complaining about customer service.  

&quot;I had to wait!&quot;  &quot;She wasn&#039;t very friendly!&quot;  &quot;He didn&#039;t give me enough time!&quot;

Writers seeking representation are not the customers.  They&#039;re the vendors.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent.</p>
<p>I think a big part of the disconnect is that so many people are used to being customers and complaining about customer service.  </p>
<p>&#8220;I had to wait!&#8221;  &#8220;She wasn&#8217;t very friendly!&#8221;  &#8220;He didn&#8217;t give me enough time!&#8221;</p>
<p>Writers seeking representation are not the customers.  They&#8217;re the vendors.</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77604</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:10:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What?? They _don&#039;t like_ crayon on vellum?

Tch.

*bins Great Unpublished Echidna Novel and closes goatskin treatment plant*

One day, they&#039;ll see.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What?? They _don&#8217;t like_ crayon on vellum?</p>
<p>Tch.</p>
<p>*bins Great Unpublished Echidna Novel and closes goatskin treatment plant*</p>
<p>One day, they&#8217;ll see.</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77603</link>
		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:59:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your post, that&#039;s really good to know. I haven&#039;t tried getting published yet because I know I&#039;m still practicing. I love writing for the sake of writing anyways right now. I always enjoy your posts on the publishing world, though! So thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your post, that&#8217;s really good to know. I haven&#8217;t tried getting published yet because I know I&#8217;m still practicing. I love writing for the sake of writing anyways right now. I always enjoy your posts on the publishing world, though! So thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Danny Adams</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77602</link>
		<dc:creator>Danny Adams</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That &quot;not enthusiastic enough&quot; took me awhile to figure out too. I know now that enthusiasm and its linked qualities like presenting the work to an editor are half the battle, and without them an agent may as well not even jump in.

Fortunately I&#039;ve only had one bad agent experience, and that was someone who said he was looking for new clients never getting back to me about my submission, including silence after a single polite query about six months in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That &#8220;not enthusiastic enough&#8221; took me awhile to figure out too. I know now that enthusiasm and its linked qualities like presenting the work to an editor are half the battle, and without them an agent may as well not even jump in.</p>
<p>Fortunately I&#8217;ve only had one bad agent experience, and that was someone who said he was looking for new clients never getting back to me about my submission, including silence after a single polite query about six months in.</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Duvall</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77601</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Duvall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen, sister.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen, sister.</p>
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		<title>By: kath</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77600</link>
		<dc:creator>kath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:47:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve had a couple of agents make suggestions about my work throughout the years when they rejected me. I take that as a gift, not a given.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve had a couple of agents make suggestions about my work throughout the years when they rejected me. I take that as a gift, not a given.</p>
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		<title>By: N. K. Jemisin</title>
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		<dc:creator>N. K. Jemisin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Author going crazy and turning in a book written in crayon on vellum. Editor going crazy and demanding all characters be changed into echidnas.&lt;/em&gt;

I&#039;ve had nightmares that started like this!  I thought it was just me!  =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Author going crazy and turning in a book written in crayon on vellum. Editor going crazy and demanding all characters be changed into echidnas.</em></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve had nightmares that started like this!  I thought it was just me!  =)</p>
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		<title>By: sara z.</title>
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		<dc:creator>sara z.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 23:08:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. My first agent was &quot;just not that into me,&quot; and it was misery. And I was not ready for an agent, my work was not ready for an agent...I needed to get better. Anger about the crap that was getting published was helpful fuel for the fire of working and working and working and working ON MY WRITING (not on getting an agent - that too, a little, but mostly ON MY WRITING). 

Now I&#039;m with Mr. Perfect for Me, who may not be Mr. Perfect for You, or Mr. Perfect for Them. That&#039;s another thing. After firing first agent and starting all over, I was going after everyone else&#039;s Perfect Agent for a long time, and not getting anywhere. And p.s. feeling like a loser because of that. Anyway, in the end my patience and willingness to work ON MY WRITING paid off and I lived happily ever after. So far.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. My first agent was &#8220;just not that into me,&#8221; and it was misery. And I was not ready for an agent, my work was not ready for an agent&#8230;I needed to get better. Anger about the crap that was getting published was helpful fuel for the fire of working and working and working and working ON MY WRITING (not on getting an agent &#8211; that too, a little, but mostly ON MY WRITING). </p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m with Mr. Perfect for Me, who may not be Mr. Perfect for You, or Mr. Perfect for Them. That&#8217;s another thing. After firing first agent and starting all over, I was going after everyone else&#8217;s Perfect Agent for a long time, and not getting anywhere. And p.s. feeling like a loser because of that. Anyway, in the end my patience and willingness to work ON MY WRITING paid off and I lived happily ever after. So far.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristy Dempsey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristy Dempsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 22:05:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hurrah, hurrah, Amen and pass the donation plate. I&#039;ll tithe to that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hurrah, hurrah, Amen and pass the donation plate. I&#8217;ll tithe to that.</p>
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		<title>By: Kate Elliott</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77595</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate Elliott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:59:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So very yes to this that I am going to link it from my lj.

Years and years and years ago an agent kindly took the time to read my first complete novel, and she was kind enough to talk to me about it in person, and she was kind enough to tell me some things I needed to hear which I did not want to hear and which made me both angry and upset, and which later I came to realize were all true.  In fact, she went easy on me.  Why on earth this woman was that kind I cannot imagine, but she was, and I now recognize it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So very yes to this that I am going to link it from my lj.</p>
<p>Years and years and years ago an agent kindly took the time to read my first complete novel, and she was kind enough to talk to me about it in person, and she was kind enough to tell me some things I needed to hear which I did not want to hear and which made me both angry and upset, and which later I came to realize were all true.  In fact, she went easy on me.  Why on earth this woman was that kind I cannot imagine, but she was, and I now recognize it.</p>
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		<title>By: eric luper</title>
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		<dc:creator>eric luper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:41:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nothing to add but... perfect, just perfect.</description>
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		<title>By: Janni</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/04/06/agents-and-rejection/comment-page-1/#comment-77593</link>
		<dc:creator>Janni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;An agent who passes cause they’re not sufficiently in love with your writing is DOING YOU A FAVOUR.&lt;/i&gt;

Yes. That.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>An agent who passes cause they’re not sufficiently in love with your writing is DOING YOU A FAVOUR.</i></p>
<p>Yes. That.</p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 21:25:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can I get an amen?</description>
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