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		<title>By: Lollipop</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2009/03/05/online-versus-offline-behaviour/comment-page-1/#comment-76682</link>
		<dc:creator>Lollipop</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2009 17:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have not read any of your books yet.  I will now be making an effort to do so.  Thank you for this, and I look forward to your novels!</description>
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		<title>By: Shaun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shaun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 19:25:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How people act when nobody can see them, or when they know there&#039;s no repercussions to what they do -- THAT&#039;S when you see what a person is really like. Ah trolls and flamers, pathetic scourge of the internet. Cowards, the lot of them. And seriously irritating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How people act when nobody can see them, or when they know there&#8217;s no repercussions to what they do &#8212; THAT&#8217;S when you see what a person is really like. Ah trolls and flamers, pathetic scourge of the internet. Cowards, the lot of them. And seriously irritating.</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 13:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Belongum: Thanks, though you make me blush. It&#039;s a great quote, isn&#039;t it?

(Slightly irrelevantly---given that you say your mob is from way north of Broome---I&#039;ve always wanted to visit Broome---even before I first heard the soundtrack of Jimmy Chi&#039;s &lt;i&gt;Bran Nue Dae&lt;/i&gt;.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Belongum: Thanks, though you make me blush. It&#8217;s a great quote, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>(Slightly irrelevantly&#8212;given that you say your mob is from way north of Broome&#8212;I&#8217;ve always wanted to visit Broome&#8212;even before I first heard the soundtrack of Jimmy Chi&#8217;s <i>Bran Nue Dae</i>.)</p>
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		<title>By: Belongum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Belongum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 11:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;ve just become my new &#039;hero&#039; for the week Justine... I had no idea that such a thing had been said by a US Attorney General.  Wow... and then you echoed my own thoughts shortly after - we aren&#039;t &#039;that far behind&#039; the States on this one.

I&#039;ve delivered no end of &#039;cultural awareness training (I&#039;m a Bardi fella - my mob are found well north of Broome) here in Perth - and there&#039;s very little that divides us quite so well as the &#039;race debate&#039;.

I won&#039;t go into any further details - I squawk way to much about it at times over in my own little bit of blogosphere - but currently, where I work right now, in the arts... well - lets just say that this issue insinuates itself across all facets of our own society - and the more we have people diverting the issue, or simply not acknowledging it - the more we watch it live on.
Sheesh - good luck Justine - real life is bad enough, fancy having to do this in another plane as well... 

Bugger!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve just become my new &#8216;hero&#8217; for the week Justine&#8230; I had no idea that such a thing had been said by a US Attorney General.  Wow&#8230; and then you echoed my own thoughts shortly after &#8211; we aren&#8217;t &#8216;that far behind&#8217; the States on this one.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve delivered no end of &#8216;cultural awareness training (I&#8217;m a Bardi fella &#8211; my mob are found well north of Broome) here in Perth &#8211; and there&#8217;s very little that divides us quite so well as the &#8216;race debate&#8217;.</p>
<p>I won&#8217;t go into any further details &#8211; I squawk way to much about it at times over in my own little bit of blogosphere &#8211; but currently, where I work right now, in the arts&#8230; well &#8211; lets just say that this issue insinuates itself across all facets of our own society &#8211; and the more we have people diverting the issue, or simply not acknowledging it &#8211; the more we watch it live on.<br />
Sheesh &#8211; good luck Justine &#8211; real life is bad enough, fancy having to do this in another plane as well&#8230; </p>
<p>Bugger!</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff VanderMeer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeff VanderMeer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 05:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What Mary Anne Mohanraj and Cherie Priest said, basically--in that I only became aware of this a couple of days ago because of deadlines and because of having a strict policy while working of only going to major news sites. Trying to kind of untangle all of what seem like hundreds of posts. Trying to understand why people I thought were sane seem to have (at the very least) massively overreacted to various stimuli.

Justine--I appreciate the post, which although common sense in one way is a necessary anchor in another. 

Back to deadlines--gotta put food on the table.

JeffV</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What Mary Anne Mohanraj and Cherie Priest said, basically&#8211;in that I only became aware of this a couple of days ago because of deadlines and because of having a strict policy while working of only going to major news sites. Trying to kind of untangle all of what seem like hundreds of posts. Trying to understand why people I thought were sane seem to have (at the very least) massively overreacted to various stimuli.</p>
<p>Justine&#8211;I appreciate the post, which although common sense in one way is a necessary anchor in another. </p>
<p>Back to deadlines&#8211;gotta put food on the table.</p>
<p>JeffV</p>
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		<title>By: ginny!</title>
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		<dc:creator>ginny!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 00:08:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have nothing to say more than wholehearted agreement.</description>
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		<title>By: Pope Lizbet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pope Lizbet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 19:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. Now I feel even better about my enthusiastic recommendations of How to Ditch your Fairy. Thank you for this.</description>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 18:56:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I had to delurk to say thank you for speaking up. It&#039;s really saddening how few people in the industry have, but this is an excellent post, and it helps.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I had to delurk to say thank you for speaking up. It&#8217;s really saddening how few people in the industry have, but this is an excellent post, and it helps.</p>
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		<title>By: Cat Sparks</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cat Sparks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 07:07:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&#039;The internet is real life&#039;

I want this on a t-shirt</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;The internet is real life&#8217;</p>
<p>I want this on a t-shirt</p>
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		<title>By: cherie priest</title>
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		<dc:creator>cherie priest</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 06:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What Mary Anne said. As you know, Bob (Justine!) I&#039;m very interested in the conversation; but I&#039;ve been eyeballs deep in work for the last couple of weeks, and have scarcely been online.  I believe my recent and obnoxious preponderance of kitty videos and links posts will attest to this.

I didn&#039;t even know that things had re-erupted until this afternoon.  But I&#039;m glad you&#039;re talking about it.  I&#039;m glad you&#039;re not afraid of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What Mary Anne said. As you know, Bob (Justine!) I&#8217;m very interested in the conversation; but I&#8217;ve been eyeballs deep in work for the last couple of weeks, and have scarcely been online.  I believe my recent and obnoxious preponderance of kitty videos and links posts will attest to this.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t even know that things had re-erupted until this afternoon.  But I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re talking about it.  I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re not afraid of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 00:35:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much everyone for such a warm response to my pretty obvious common sense post. I really appreciate it. 

Throughout all of this I&#039;ve been really heartened by the astonishingly smart and thought-provoking posts that have been produced. Such as the one I linked to above by Deepad. She also has an &lt;a href=&quot;http://deepad.livejournal.com/29826.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;excellent post on white allies&lt;/a&gt;. There have also been many great posts by &lt;a href=&quot;http://rydra-wong.livejournal.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Rydra Wong&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://ktempest.livejournal.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Tempest&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Coffeeandink&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=&quot;http://nojojojo.livejournal.com/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Nojojojo&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://inalasahl.livejournal.com/149900.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;many other&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href=&quot;http://bossymarmalade.livejournal.com/483524.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;people&lt;/a&gt;. It&#039;s been amazing.

Mary Anne: Sure, lots of people have no idea what&#039;s been going on. In trying to explain this post to one writer friend it emerged that she did not know what livejournal is.

Colleen: Yeah, that was a similarly horrible suckfest. But at least way more prominent sf folks spoke out about it. That person&#039;s rudeness to you was insane and is exactly the kind of behaviour I&#039;m talking about. People who are rude online but nice off remind me of people who are lovely to their peers and superiors but insufferable to waitstaff and taxi drivers and other people they consider not to be their peers. Or the kind of bloke who&#039;s great to everyone except his wife and children. They are &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; good people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much everyone for such a warm response to my pretty obvious common sense post. I really appreciate it. </p>
<p>Throughout all of this I&#8217;ve been really heartened by the astonishingly smart and thought-provoking posts that have been produced. Such as the one I linked to above by Deepad. She also has an <a href="http://deepad.livejournal.com/29826.html" rel="nofollow">excellent post on white allies</a>. There have also been many great posts by <a href="http://rydra-wong.livejournal.com/" rel="nofollow">Rydra Wong</a>, <a href="http://ktempest.livejournal.com/" rel="nofollow">Tempest</a>, <a href="http://coffeeandink.livejournal.com/" rel="nofollow">Coffeeandink</a>, <a href="http://nojojojo.livejournal.com/" rel="nofollow">Nojojojo</a> and <a href="http://inalasahl.livejournal.com/149900.html" rel="nofollow">many other</a> <a href="http://bossymarmalade.livejournal.com/483524.html" rel="nofollow">people</a>. It&#8217;s been amazing.</p>
<p>Mary Anne: Sure, lots of people have no idea what&#8217;s been going on. In trying to explain this post to one writer friend it emerged that she did not know what livejournal is.</p>
<p>Colleen: Yeah, that was a similarly horrible suckfest. But at least way more prominent sf folks spoke out about it. That person&#8217;s rudeness to you was insane and is exactly the kind of behaviour I&#8217;m talking about. People who are rude online but nice off remind me of people who are lovely to their peers and superiors but insufferable to waitstaff and taxi drivers and other people they consider not to be their peers. Or the kind of bloke who&#8217;s great to everyone except his wife and children. They are <i>not</i> good people.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 22:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Justine, THANK YOU.

Colleen, a lot of the racefail/derailing behavior I&#039;ve been witnessing has really brought to mind that exact same Connie Willis related craziness and the aftermath.  I&#039;m sorry to hear that happened to you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Justine, THANK YOU.</p>
<p>Colleen, a lot of the racefail/derailing behavior I&#8217;ve been witnessing has really brought to mind that exact same Connie Willis related craziness and the aftermath.  I&#8217;m sorry to hear that happened to you.</p>
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		<title>By: Colleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Colleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 20:52:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In that craziness a few years ago concerning Connie Willis and poor behavior at a Con dinner and all the posting that followed I was attacked by a very well respected member of the SFF community in the comments at another site - it got so bad that the site&#039;s owner intervened (more than once) but he just kept going. It was horrible - it made me think about never reading SFF again if someone who so many authors respected could write to me that way - could be so arrogant and cruel. Several people sent me private emails trying to explain that &quot;he was just upset by the whole thing - wanted to protect his friends - a guy who just gets fired up sometimes&quot; and on and on and on.

Part of me wanted to stop ever reviewing books from the pub house he worked at - although that would be punishing poor authors who knew nothing of all this so obviously I dropped the idea.

Anyway, at the end of the day I felt just like you are right now. It is impossible for me to believe that this person could be so kind and wonderful in person and so downright mean online. I couldn&#039;t forgive one set of behavior because people who personally knew him were testifying to the other. I decided just to pull out of the online community altogether. I only read a couple of personal blogs now and thus have missed all of this recent madness (until Gwenda linked).

I can only imagine what has been said and am only thankful that I have missed it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In that craziness a few years ago concerning Connie Willis and poor behavior at a Con dinner and all the posting that followed I was attacked by a very well respected member of the SFF community in the comments at another site &#8211; it got so bad that the site&#8217;s owner intervened (more than once) but he just kept going. It was horrible &#8211; it made me think about never reading SFF again if someone who so many authors respected could write to me that way &#8211; could be so arrogant and cruel. Several people sent me private emails trying to explain that &#8220;he was just upset by the whole thing &#8211; wanted to protect his friends &#8211; a guy who just gets fired up sometimes&#8221; and on and on and on.</p>
<p>Part of me wanted to stop ever reviewing books from the pub house he worked at &#8211; although that would be punishing poor authors who knew nothing of all this so obviously I dropped the idea.</p>
<p>Anyway, at the end of the day I felt just like you are right now. It is impossible for me to believe that this person could be so kind and wonderful in person and so downright mean online. I couldn&#8217;t forgive one set of behavior because people who personally knew him were testifying to the other. I decided just to pull out of the online community altogether. I only read a couple of personal blogs now and thus have missed all of this recent madness (until Gwenda linked).</p>
<p>I can only imagine what has been said and am only thankful that I have missed it.</p>
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		<title>By: links for 2009-03-06 &#171; Embololalia</title>
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		<dc:creator>links for 2009-03-06 &#171; Embololalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 18:05:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Online versus Offline behaviour » Justine Larbalestier I am no longer interested in hearing how lovely a particular person is in real life when they are a bully and a bigot and a troll online. I’ll go further than that it no longer matters to me if I have met said nasty online person in real life and have found them perfectly charming. Behaving well in only one or two sphere of your life does not make you a good person. Treating people with contempt speaks volumes. Always. (tags: racefail09 internet blogging race sf/f) [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Online versus Offline behaviour » Justine Larbalestier I am no longer interested in hearing how lovely a particular person is in real life when they are a bully and a bigot and a troll online. I’ll go further than that it no longer matters to me if I have met said nasty online person in real life and have found them perfectly charming. Behaving well in only one or two sphere of your life does not make you a good person. Treating people with contempt speaks volumes. Always. (tags: racefail09 internet blogging race sf/f) [...]</p>
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		<title>By: skywardprodigal</title>
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		<dc:creator>skywardprodigal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 16:34:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this. I&#039;ll be returning.</description>
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		<title>By: Shveta</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shveta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 14:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you, Justine.  One of the things I want to do with my writing is open up the idea of other cultures and peoples as, well, not Other.

Unfortunately, this discussion, it&#039;s difficult sometimes, both in fiction and real life, because often people aren&#039;t ready to listen.  (The people you&#039;ve mentioned a perfect case in point.)  I think some of that must come from the idea that any mention of the notion of privilege and the concept of race relations is an attack on the person being addressed.  &quot;But &lt;i&gt;I&#039;m&lt;/i&gt; not like that, I&#039;m not a racist, so this is irrelevant to me!  So stop talking about it, or I&#039;ll leave.&quot;  I have had this happen with a friend already, and it is saddening and alienating.  Or, &quot;It can&#039;t really be like you say; I don&#039;t see it.&quot;  (Because if you don&#039;t see it, it can&#039;t be real?  What kind of logic is that?)

All we can do is try to keep talking.  Thank you for this post in helping to continue the discussion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Justine.  One of the things I want to do with my writing is open up the idea of other cultures and peoples as, well, not Other.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, this discussion, it&#8217;s difficult sometimes, both in fiction and real life, because often people aren&#8217;t ready to listen.  (The people you&#8217;ve mentioned a perfect case in point.)  I think some of that must come from the idea that any mention of the notion of privilege and the concept of race relations is an attack on the person being addressed.  &#8220;But <i>I&#8217;m</i> not like that, I&#8217;m not a racist, so this is irrelevant to me!  So stop talking about it, or I&#8217;ll leave.&#8221;  I have had this happen with a friend already, and it is saddening and alienating.  Or, &#8220;It can&#8217;t really be like you say; I don&#8217;t see it.&#8221;  (Because if you don&#8217;t see it, it can&#8217;t be real?  What kind of logic is that?)</p>
<p>All we can do is try to keep talking.  Thank you for this post in helping to continue the discussion.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Anne Mohanraj</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Anne Mohanraj</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 14:36:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just a quick note for those bewildered by the silence of professionals in the field -- I hadn&#039;t heard about any of this until Justine&#039;s post.  Many of us don&#039;t hang out on Livejournal or in the relevant communities.  

Please don&#039;t assume that there are tons of professional writers supporting the outing of pseudonyms or whatever other nonsense has been going on.  I&#039;ve barely had time to read the initial posts so far, and probably won&#039;t get through most of the comments anytime soon, if at all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a quick note for those bewildered by the silence of professionals in the field &#8212; I hadn&#8217;t heard about any of this until Justine&#8217;s post.  Many of us don&#8217;t hang out on Livejournal or in the relevant communities.  </p>
<p>Please don&#8217;t assume that there are tons of professional writers supporting the outing of pseudonyms or whatever other nonsense has been going on.  I&#8217;ve barely had time to read the initial posts so far, and probably won&#8217;t get through most of the comments anytime soon, if at all.</p>
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		<title>By: SenNim</title>
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		<dc:creator>SenNim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 11:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>After mere weeks of following this online, I didn&#039;t think it could get any worse. And it did.

And despite the uproar in various pockets of fandom at what was being said and flung around, it seemed that no matter what we said about how awful this all was, there was a divide: fans vs. &quot;writers.&quot;

And as with Airbender, no matter how outraged fans would be, the &quot;creators&quot; or &quot;producers&quot; of mainstream would look away, ignore, and feed crumbs on the side.

So thanks for posting, and for that last line. And for your part in breaking the silence and the divide.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After mere weeks of following this online, I didn&#8217;t think it could get any worse. And it did.</p>
<p>And despite the uproar in various pockets of fandom at what was being said and flung around, it seemed that no matter what we said about how awful this all was, there was a divide: fans vs. &#8220;writers.&#8221;</p>
<p>And as with Airbender, no matter how outraged fans would be, the &#8220;creators&#8221; or &#8220;producers&#8221; of mainstream would look away, ignore, and feed crumbs on the side.</p>
<p>So thanks for posting, and for that last line. And for your part in breaking the silence and the divide.</p>
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		<title>By: lilacsigil</title>
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		<dc:creator>lilacsigil</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 09:52:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for speaking up - the silence from the rest of the professional SF/F community has been nearly as deafening as the flailing of the distractors in question.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for speaking up &#8211; the silence from the rest of the professional SF/F community has been nearly as deafening as the flailing of the distractors in question.</p>
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		<title>By: Oyce</title>
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		<dc:creator>Oyce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 09:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this; it really means a lot to me to see various people in the industry speaking up about this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this; it really means a lot to me to see various people in the industry speaking up about this.</p>
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		<title>By: The conversation continues at Feminist SF - The Blog!</title>
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		<dc:creator>The conversation continues at Feminist SF - The Blog!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 09:07:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I was going to call this One Minute Past Midnight And The Conversation Goes On Without You, but I was too tired too late for that to be timely. Justine Larbalestier, whose books just went on my oh, I must look out for that reading list, writes about online-versus-offline-behaviour. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I was going to call this One Minute Past Midnight And The Conversation Goes On Without You, but I was too tired too late for that to be timely. Justine Larbalestier, whose books just went on my oh, I must look out for that reading list, writes about online-versus-offline-behaviour. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Molly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Molly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for posting this.</description>
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		<title>By: FollowingTheRaceFail</title>
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		<dc:creator>FollowingTheRaceFail</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 05:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very nice. It&#039;s always disheartening to see people I&#039;m supposed to respect and want to work with acting like children. These are professionals at the top of their field but they seem to refuse to act like it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very nice. It&#8217;s always disheartening to see people I&#8217;m supposed to respect and want to work with acting like children. These are professionals at the top of their field but they seem to refuse to act like it.</p>
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		<title>By: Danii</title>
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		<dc:creator>Danii</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 04:40:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for speaking up.

Thank you for doing it eloquently.

and thank you for being plain and honest and blunt.  I didn&#039;t know about you before, but I&#039;m a lot more likely to pick up one of your books now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for speaking up.</p>
<p>Thank you for doing it eloquently.</p>
<p>and thank you for being plain and honest and blunt.  I didn&#8217;t know about you before, but I&#8217;m a lot more likely to pick up one of your books now.</p>
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		<title>By: beachlass</title>
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		<dc:creator>beachlass</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 04:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said.</description>
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