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	<title>Comments on: John Green and The Art of Lying</title>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6728</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Sep 2006 19:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not lying about that. Unless Wikipedia is lying:

&quot;While a student, Tycho lost part of his nose in a duel with Manderup Parsbjerg, a fellow Danish nobleman. This occurred in the Christmas season of 1566, after a fair amount of drinking, while the just turned 20-year-old Tycho was studying at the University of Rostock in Germany. Attending a dance at a professor&#039;s house, he quarrelled with Parsbjerg. A subsequent duel (in the dark) resulted in Tycho losing the bridge of his nose. A consequence of this was that Tycho developed an interest in medicine and alchemy. For the rest of his life, he was said to have worn a replacement made of silver and gold blended into a flesh tone, and used an adhesive balm to keep it attached.&quot;

The quarrel, from what I can gather from other sources, was about math. They did not kid around about math in the 16th century.

-John
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not lying about that. Unless Wikipedia is lying:</p>
<p>&#8220;While a student, Tycho lost part of his nose in a duel with Manderup Parsbjerg, a fellow Danish nobleman. This occurred in the Christmas season of 1566, after a fair amount of drinking, while the just turned 20-year-old Tycho was studying at the University of Rostock in Germany. Attending a dance at a professor&#8217;s house, he quarrelled with Parsbjerg. A subsequent duel (in the dark) resulted in Tycho losing the bridge of his nose. A consequence of this was that Tycho developed an interest in medicine and alchemy. For the rest of his life, he was said to have worn a replacement made of silver and gold blended into a flesh tone, and used an adhesive balm to keep it attached.&#8221;</p>
<p>The quarrel, from what I can gather from other sources, was about math. They did not kid around about math in the 16th century.</p>
<p>-John<br />
<a href="http://www.sparksflyup.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.sparksflyup.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Eloise</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6727</link>
		<dc:creator>Eloise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Sep 2006 19:32:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, I thought Tycho Brahe lost his nose to syphilis.

Or are you lying about that?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, I thought Tycho Brahe lost his nose to syphilis.</p>
<p>Or are you lying about that?</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6674</link>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2006 16:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>re. carbonel:

Sure, honesty is virtue. A lot of things are virtues. Chastity is a virtue (or so I&#039;m told), but if we were all chaste all the time, there wouldn&#039;t be any babies.

Virtues are never absolute, in my opinion. Generally, it&#039;s a good idea to be loyal, but there are exceptions. Generally, it&#039;s a good idea to be kind, but there are exceptions. And generally, it&#039;s a good idea to be honest, but there are exceptions.

Glad to see so many people enjoyed the interview.

-John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>re. carbonel:</p>
<p>Sure, honesty is virtue. A lot of things are virtues. Chastity is a virtue (or so I&#8217;m told), but if we were all chaste all the time, there wouldn&#8217;t be any babies.</p>
<p>Virtues are never absolute, in my opinion. Generally, it&#8217;s a good idea to be loyal, but there are exceptions. Generally, it&#8217;s a good idea to be kind, but there are exceptions. And generally, it&#8217;s a good idea to be honest, but there are exceptions.</p>
<p>Glad to see so many people enjoyed the interview.</p>
<p>-John</p>
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		<title>By: Little Willow</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6660</link>
		<dc:creator>Little Willow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Sep 2006 05:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So fun. Thanks for making me smile, both of you.

I wrote an article about a panel which featured Green and Zusak, and trust me, it was a positive piece.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So fun. Thanks for making me smile, both of you.</p>
<p>I wrote an article about a panel which featured Green and Zusak, and trust me, it was a positive piece.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted Lemon</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6654</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted Lemon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 22:39:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you told your friend that her boy was cheating on her, you say that you regret it because you lost her as a friend.   I&#039;d like you to consider another viewpoint on this, though: if you&#039;re really someone&#039;s friend, then doing what helps them the most is more important than having them continue to consider you a friend.   To me, that&#039;s a big part of what me being a friend is.

By telling your friend about her boy, you may have caused her a big short-term heartache, but you may also have saved her from a much bigger one, particularly if her two-timing boy brought home some kind of dread disease.   This benefit from your action is real, whether she agrees it&#039;s real or not.   So I would argue that you were in fact acting as a true friend when you told her this truth, and that you shouldn&#039;t regret it at all.

Sure, it sucks that *you* lost a friend, but I really don&#039;t think that&#039;s a long-term problem for you.   Friends come and go, and I&#039;m guessing you&#039;re doing just find in the friend department now.

Of course I realize that this analysis is quite naive and that I don&#039;t have all the facts, so I don&#039;t know if it really applies in this particular case, but since you made a blanket statement about not telling secrets of this sort, I felt it might be worth considering an opposing viewpoint.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you told your friend that her boy was cheating on her, you say that you regret it because you lost her as a friend.   I&#8217;d like you to consider another viewpoint on this, though: if you&#8217;re really someone&#8217;s friend, then doing what helps them the most is more important than having them continue to consider you a friend.   To me, that&#8217;s a big part of what me being a friend is.</p>
<p>By telling your friend about her boy, you may have caused her a big short-term heartache, but you may also have saved her from a much bigger one, particularly if her two-timing boy brought home some kind of dread disease.   This benefit from your action is real, whether she agrees it&#8217;s real or not.   So I would argue that you were in fact acting as a true friend when you told her this truth, and that you shouldn&#8217;t regret it at all.</p>
<p>Sure, it sucks that *you* lost a friend, but I really don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s a long-term problem for you.   Friends come and go, and I&#8217;m guessing you&#8217;re doing just find in the friend department now.</p>
<p>Of course I realize that this analysis is quite naive and that I don&#8217;t have all the facts, so I don&#8217;t know if it really applies in this particular case, but since you made a blanket statement about not telling secrets of this sort, I felt it might be worth considering an opposing viewpoint.</p>
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		<title>By: Carbonel</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6646</link>
		<dc:creator>Carbonel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 19:06:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No. Honesty is a virtue. A rather important one, since once one has lost the reputation for possessing it, ones life is made exponentially difficult.

&quot;&lt;i&gt;If people are coming to kill your family and friends and you know where they are hidden, saying you don&#039;t know is the only honourable, good thing you can do. Telling the truth in that situation would be reprehensible&lt;/i&gt;&quot;

In point of fact, you could say, &quot;Yes. I know where they&#039;re hidden. But I won&#039;t tell you because you&#039;re coming to kill them.&quot; Then, if you live in sensible state, like, oh, Virginia, you pull out your rifle and say, &quot;Get off my property. Now.&quot;

Lies, it seems to me, are often failures of the imagination. Then too, there&#039;s the historical blindness. Readers of old novels knew that there were all sorts of conventional phrases used (with acquaintences, etc.) which inabled one to both avoid a hurtful truth and an out-and-out falsehood.

But that got ditched in favor of Sincerity with predictable results in either hurt feelings or personal integrity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No. Honesty is a virtue. A rather important one, since once one has lost the reputation for possessing it, ones life is made exponentially difficult.</p>
<p>&#8220;<i>If people are coming to kill your family and friends and you know where they are hidden, saying you don&#8217;t know is the only honourable, good thing you can do. Telling the truth in that situation would be reprehensible</i>&#8221;</p>
<p>In point of fact, you could say, &#8220;Yes. I know where they&#8217;re hidden. But I won&#8217;t tell you because you&#8217;re coming to kill them.&#8221; Then, if you live in sensible state, like, oh, Virginia, you pull out your rifle and say, &#8220;Get off my property. Now.&#8221;</p>
<p>Lies, it seems to me, are often failures of the imagination. Then too, there&#8217;s the historical blindness. Readers of old novels knew that there were all sorts of conventional phrases used (with acquaintences, etc.) which inabled one to both avoid a hurtful truth and an out-and-out falsehood.</p>
<p>But that got ditched in favor of Sincerity with predictable results in either hurt feelings or personal integrity.</p>
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		<title>By: liset</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6644</link>
		<dc:creator>liset</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 18:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(the part that got chopped off)
reading this makes me feel much better for telling people that i play the violin, bass guitar, piano, and that i&#039;m a ballerina. cause i am those things kinda. i was a ballerian when i was little for a few years, i played violin in elemetry and junior, and i own a bass guitar.
ok yeah that is a huge lie...
but...but...i think its okay, cause it makes for interesting stories...
anways great interview thingy...</description>
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reading this makes me feel much better for telling people that i play the violin, bass guitar, piano, and that i&#8217;m a ballerina. cause i am those things kinda. i was a ballerian when i was little for a few years, i played violin in elemetry and junior, and i own a bass guitar.<br />
ok yeah that is a huge lie&#8230;<br />
but&#8230;but&#8230;i think its okay, cause it makes for interesting stories&#8230;<br />
anways great interview thingy&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: liset</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6643</link>
		<dc:creator>liset</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 18:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi!
ah, lies! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi!<br />
ah, lies!</p>
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		<title>By: niki</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6642</link>
		<dc:creator>niki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 17:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you forgot to mention that it&#039;s kinda detremental to tell lies to people without fully informing your sister and remindering her regularly what they are becasue she just kept forgetting.....I don&#039;t think your insentives not to forget were quite as masterfull as you abitity to tell lies :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you forgot to mention that it&#8217;s kinda detremental to tell lies to people without fully informing your sister and remindering her regularly what they are becasue she just kept forgetting&#8230;..I don&#8217;t think your insentives not to forget were quite as masterfull as you abitity to tell lies <img src='http://justinelarbalestier.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6638</link>
		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 13:27:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebecca: When I put in the code that creates the cut the sidebar goes. I have no idea why---it didn&#039;t last time I did it. Anyone know how to fix?

Diana: I believe it is essential for a novelist to be good at Telling-Better-Story lies.

Marrije: Glad you liked it. His books are most excellent, indeed. Wouldn&#039;t have interviewed him otherwise.

What makes you think I&#039;m not already writing that novel?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebecca: When I put in the code that creates the cut the sidebar goes. I have no idea why&#8212;it didn&#8217;t last time I did it. Anyone know how to fix?</p>
<p>Diana: I believe it is essential for a novelist to be good at Telling-Better-Story lies.</p>
<p>Marrije: Glad you liked it. His books are most excellent, indeed. Wouldn&#8217;t have interviewed him otherwise.</p>
<p>What makes you think I&#8217;m not already writing that novel?</p>
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		<title>By: marrije</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6637</link>
		<dc:creator>marrije</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 12:41:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>what a lovely interview, and a delightful guy that john green. i&#039;m putting him in my must-buy-book-when-i&#039;m-moneyed-again list. 

justine, you should write a cult of evil parent-eating nuns book!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>what a lovely interview, and a delightful guy that john green. i&#8217;m putting him in my must-buy-book-when-i&#8217;m-moneyed-again list. </p>
<p>justine, you should write a cult of evil parent-eating nuns book!</p>
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		<title>By: Diana</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6635</link>
		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 05:56:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>blog looks fine to me. (truth)

I&#039;m a terrible, terrible liar (truth)

except for the category of &#039;telling-a-better-story&#039; lies. in those cases, i lie so well that i believe them myself, and i tell the story, and i think it&#039;s true, and then my fiance looks and me and kind of shakes his head and is all &#039;none of this happened, you know.&#039; (truth)

but no one believes him because my story sounds so much better. (possibly a lie?)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>blog looks fine to me. (truth)</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a terrible, terrible liar (truth)</p>
<p>except for the category of &#8216;telling-a-better-story&#8217; lies. in those cases, i lie so well that i believe them myself, and i tell the story, and i think it&#8217;s true, and then my fiance looks and me and kind of shakes his head and is all &#8216;none of this happened, you know.&#8217; (truth)</p>
<p>but no one believes him because my story sounds so much better. (possibly a lie?)</p>
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		<title>By: Peter Hollo</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6634</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter Hollo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 05:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;I have no idea what you&#039;re talking about . . .&lt;/i&gt;
LIAR!

(Agreed, by the way---great interview!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>I have no idea what you&#8217;re talking about . . .</i><br />
LIAR!</p>
<p>(Agreed, by the way&#8212;great interview!)</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 04:18:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>where is the sidebar?!?! i love me some sidebar. kewl interview though. :-D i especially like the quote at the beginning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>where is the sidebar?!?! i love me some sidebar. kewl interview though. <img src='http://justinelarbalestier.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' />  i especially like the quote at the beginning.</p>
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		<title>By: Justine</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6632</link>
		<dc:creator>Justine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Sep 2006 04:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have no idea what you&#039;re talking about . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have no idea what you&#8217;re talking about . . .</p>
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		<title>By: Peter Hollo</title>
		<link>http://justinelarbalestier.com/blog/2006/09/21/john-green-and-the-art-of-lying/comment-page-1/#comment-6622</link>
		<dc:creator>Peter Hollo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Sep 2006 04:52:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait wait, there are all these letters in there that I can&#039;t understand. Some of them are like bigger versions of normal letters, but it&#039;s all confusing! Doesn&#039;t look like justine&#039;s blog at all!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wait wait, there are all these letters in there that I can&#8217;t understand. Some of them are like bigger versions of normal letters, but it&#8217;s all confusing! Doesn&#8217;t look like justine&#8217;s blog at all!</p>
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